This first week, the relationship we studied was that of a true friend. Now, keep in mind, a true friend does not necessarily have to be a best friend. In 1 Samuel 18 all the way through 2 Samuel 1 we learn of the true friendship between David and Jonathan. Jonathan and David become friends, even though, Jonathan's father (Saul) and David are enemies. However, their friendship goes even deeper than that. When Jonathan is sent to kill David by his father, Jonathan instead tells David to be on guard. When Saul sends more soldiers after David, instead of fleeing altogether, David runs to Jonathan to ask for advice and Jonathan helps David escape. For Jonathan to resist his father's orders and aide the man who was pronounced to become king (even though through lineage Jonathan should have been heir), is huge. 1 Samuel 18:1-3 (NIV) states "After David had finished talking with Sual, Jonathan became one in spirit with David, and he loved him as himself. From that day Saul kept David with him and did not let him return to his father's house. And Jonathan made a covenant with David because he loved him as himself." Then, in 1 Samuel 20:42 we witness again the strength of their friendship. "Jonathan said to David, 'Go in peace, for we have sworn friendship with each other in the name of the Lord, saying, 'The Lord is witness between you and me, and between your descendants and my descendants forever.'' " Jonathan and David were closer than brothers who would do anything for each other. Such great friends in fact, that even their descendants would share that bond.
The other, contemporary example that the book gives is Forrest Gump. The reason he is the modern is example is because of his life long dedication to the people he loves most - whether it is his Mama, Jenny, Bubba, or Lieutenant Dan. One thing that Forrest always asks his friends is "What can I do for you?" Although you may never here him say, it is apparent through all of his actions, that this is how he approaches most, if not all, of the situations he faces.
A true friend is loyal. A true friend will be honest with you when everyone else pretends that life is okay. A true friend shows dedication, selflessness, and a bond that is closer than a brother or sister. I know that I have three true friends -three people than I can go to for just about anything and I know that they will listen. Not only will they listen, but they will help me find a solution - whether that means coping with other people or readjusting my attitude. So my question to you this week is this: Who are your true friends? Who can you go to when the world no longer cares and life doesn't seem worth it anymore?
And don't forget that it is good to have a balance. For girls, it is good to have guys that cut through the crap but you also need a girl that is more than a sister to you for those times when guys just don't understand. And the same thing goes for guys, too. True friends don't come along often so hold onto them tight. And never forget that these relationships aren't one-sided.
To whom are you a Forrest, or a Jonathan? Especially in our society, it is easy to forgot that the world does not revolve around our problems and our stress. Be willing to put everything aside and just listen - sometimes it can be more relaxing than you think.
Tune in next week to find out what the book says next! Of course, any of you are more than welcome to actually join me for church on Sunday - just leave a comment!!!
Playlist: I Will Be - Leona Lewis, Let's Get Together - The Youngbloods, You've Got a Friend In Me - Toy Story Soundtrack, I'll Be There for You - The Rembrandts, Whatever It Takes - Lifehouse
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